Comments on: Why We Read about Narcissism Instead of How to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse–But It’s Okay https://fairytaleshadows.com/youre-reading-about-narcissism-instead-of-how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-abuse/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Sat, 13 Feb 2021 02:21:54 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/youre-reading-about-narcissism-instead-of-how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-15167 Sat, 18 May 2019 21:44:56 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=4410#comment-15167 In reply to Tammy.

Good point, Tammy. I completely agree!

]]> By: Tammy https://fairytaleshadows.com/youre-reading-about-narcissism-instead-of-how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-15163 Sat, 18 May 2019 19:49:00 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=4410#comment-15163 I am of the opinion that is because for most of us who have been in an abusive relationship with a narcissist that firstly; we have never experienced a narcissist previously in our lives so it takes much research to understand what exactly went on which is when we then realise that we were in a relationship with a narcissist and gain the knowledge in hindsight that we wished we had earlier and secondly we just cant quite believe it so read more trying initially to discount that the person we loved so dearly really didnt care at all but the more we read the more we are sure of that sad truth and so we then read more to be absolutely certain and once we are, the healing process begins… but this cannot happen until we have no doubts whatsoever that the healing we need is for damage by a narcissist!

]]> By: Eric https://fairytaleshadows.com/youre-reading-about-narcissism-instead-of-how-to-heal-from-narcissistic-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-15157 Fri, 17 May 2019 21:33:45 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=4410#comment-15157 I think for it is that, I don’t ever want to be party to that kind of abuse again.

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