Comments on: Word Salad: When Talking is a Narcissist’s Weapon https://fairytaleshadows.com/word-salad-when-talking-is-a-narcissists-weapon/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Sun, 08 May 2022 15:42:12 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Jayson https://fairytaleshadows.com/word-salad-when-talking-is-a-narcissists-weapon/comment-page-1/#comment-50262 Sun, 08 May 2022 15:42:12 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=5716#comment-50262 Example real world:
N: Have you seen my water bottles?
H: I saw them hanging in the coat closet.
N: did you say your closet.
H: what?
N: Sorry! I thought you said my closet.
H: what? No the coat closet, there is only one coat closet. The coat closet.
N: sorry! i didn’t hear you, your always so negative!
H: i dont really want to play word salad games with you.
N: (walks away.)
Context the N is repeatedly dumping the kids on me for the day, pushing boundaries taking advantage. The fix or grift for the N, the N needs to make me the bad person by projecting, baiting, gaslighting, envolking a reaction. In this case it wasnt given so the N walked away, still gets what they want. Will likely try again later.

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