Yes you can win. Be smart and crafty. There are somany ways these days to record someone. So easy to get solid proof.
Upload the recording. Google drive is free YouTube is free etc
Use this to show people the truth. Use it to protect yourself and family. Especially if it gets physical.

Very good. I agree . I’m not even involved romantically and I’m very unhappy. I will get revenge.

You have to break away. Period. And you should report anything illegal especially domestic violence

Hi Andy: I’m so sorry to hear about the pain you are going through right now. You are not alone. There are so many others who have been where you are and have made it through a relationship like yours. Please reach out to someone who can help you get through those periods that are so intense you feel like doing something like taking your life. If you don’t have a friend you can call, you can always text the crisis line #741741 in the U.S. or call 800-273-8255. This is what those numbers exist for, so please use them. We are all here to get you through when those moments pass and help motivate you to leave when you are ready. If you can, please try to seek out a therapist who is knowledgeable about narcissistic abuse and pathological love relationships. Stay strong! -Kristen

Given that we had no offspring together and documented who put in the money into the house that we purchased together we got finally got divorced in end of 2019, there came more slander on social media to try to alienate me from other mutual friends he hadn’t had the chance to force to take sides and his best friend had also threaten to beat me up.

Enough is enough

I reported his best friend to the police that I had threats that I was endangered, silly friend decided to send me WhatsApp messages to threaten me. I say he isn’t very smart doing that.

I got revenge on my ex, he had fraudulently changed his title of his name to “Dr” Claiming that he has a honorary PhD from a University, which was indeed a lie and he has no evidence to prove it. He has a “god” complex where he thinks he is better than everyone else but he had managed to change his driving licence and other sources of ID to say that he is a doctor. So I made an anonymous tip off to his school where he teachers that his is fraudulent and dishonest. I guess they will investigate this and if he isn’t lying he can prove that he had genuinely had received a doctorate.

I had enough been a walk over too much during the court process, and being alienated enough.

It took me a while to decide whether I should have reported my ex to his school about his fake academic qualifications, but he was meant to be a role model to young children faking your qualifications isn’t exactly a role model a school should have.

I can look forward to starting my life without all the toxicity and drama and can honestly say life is so much better without him in it.
x

Remember they stole from you big time. They stole the most beautifull gift you had to offer.
They stole your love and trust. That’s the biggest crime someone can inflict on an other human being.
And they get away with it while it’s a silent crime. Calculated to perfection to keep out of legal justice.

One way I took revenge is by knowing all Narcissists are paranoia. They know exactly what they have been doing wrong and try by all means to keep this a secret to anyone else. They live in fear of their victims who might come after them all the time, or to their (new) friends and partners.

After a year or two recovering I decided to send my ex-narc/psychopath and her new lover an anonymous postcard on newyears-day. Not traceable by any means.
The message was; ‘I’m in your nightmares and your fears every day. I’m one of those you’ve exploited and cheated on, and your fear will take you out of nowhere.. Just on that silly quiet street you walk on every evening. Forcing you to keep looking over your shoulder all the time. The guild you bare from where there is no escape. Your ghosts follow you everywhere’.

That was my revenge. Just to get a kind of even in my mind. It wasn’t all. I also destroyed her career in nursery which I made possible for her in the first place. Till I saw I had endorsed a narcissist/sociopath in the nursing-business. The (anonymous) letter I send to this hospital was devestating to her career. Not by my words only ofcourse but because they’ve got some evidence about her they all whitnessed a long time.
You should fight back. Give them consequenses. Do it wisely. You know where to hurt them the hardest.
Fighting back (wisely) will elevate your self-respect.
If someone kicks you; kick back!

Run, girl! Remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made! I knew it’s time to leave my narc when I started noticing that our son is picking up his abusive behavior.

It is very sad watching children being used as some manipulation tools…