Comments on: Signs the Narcissist You Know is Hoovering You https://fairytaleshadows.com/signs-of-narcissist-hoovering/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Sat, 11 Nov 2023 17:15:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Nik https://fairytaleshadows.com/signs-of-narcissist-hoovering/comment-page-1/#comment-69391 Sat, 11 Nov 2023 17:15:27 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=5654#comment-69391 It is both maddening and hilarious at how accurate these all are re: these demons called narcissists, especially the covert ones because you don’t see them coming until it’s almost too late.

Thanks for doing your part to spread the word so that others may be enlightened.

]]> By: Seriously Over It https://fairytaleshadows.com/signs-of-narcissist-hoovering/comment-page-1/#comment-34408 Tue, 08 Jun 2021 06:18:53 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=5654#comment-34408 Many of these examples made me laugh in recognition. I’m being hovered right now… ughhhh. AGAIN. The patterns are so clear, we are in idealization phase again. It’s a 2 week cycle with him. I just say in my head… narcissist disorder. narcissist disorder. narcissist disorder. I prefer to just tell him I’ve started dating someone so we can get that potentially dramatic, explosive part over with.

We do have a little one together. He’s so cryptic sometimes – as if someone can read his mind and fill in the blanks of what he’s saying – and dramatic. His “stable” nature seems legit for barely a few hours, but it can’t last long.

I don’t even care anymore. I take my daughter to see him when I think he’s mentally capable of handling her for a few hours. Otherwise… whatever.

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