https://fairytaleshadows.com/narcissists-and-valentines-day/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Tue, 01 Feb 2022 21:34:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 https://fairytaleshadows.com/narcissists-and-valentines-day/comment-page-1/#comment-46792 Tue, 01 Feb 2022 21:34:31 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=5411#comment-46792 Wow, this is so true and now makes perfect sense. I ran from my ex-narc and went zero contact. He had been trying over and over again to get me to communicate with me. Last Valentine’s Day, he stopped by the house with flowers and candy, but saw a car he didn’t recognize in the driveway (my son had gotten a new car). Instead of coming to my house, he went to the neighbors and left the gifts with them and then called and left a message that he had stopped by with gifts and would I please call him. It didn’t work. Still have not talked to him and it has been over a year!

]]> https://fairytaleshadows.com/narcissists-and-valentines-day/comment-page-1/#comment-28395 Fri, 12 Feb 2021 00:22:08 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=5411#comment-28395 Yep. The relationship began its serious decline right around Valentine’s Day last year. He had his kids on the actual day of, and there was a couple hours’ distance between us, so we celebrated the following week. I did everything wrong. I “waited until the last minute” with the gifts I gave him (even though it was already after Valentine’s Day anyway). He scowled at the card I gave him; I never knew what that was about. Maybe because it didn’t say, “I worship you.” He claimed to be going away for a weekend with his guy friends on Feb. 21 and was only able to visit me briefly. He then texted me a couple times about how he was having such a wonderful time hiking with them (even though he’d been sullen with me and told me he hated going outdoors in the cold). I now wonder if he was with another woman. Probably. That’s OK because they’ve already broken up.

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