Comments on: I Used To Be One Of The Non-Believers Too https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Tue, 12 Jan 2021 03:59:56 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: despair2deliverance https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/comment-page-1/#comment-213 Sun, 18 Feb 2018 00:25:02 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=346#comment-213 I was once on that same page. A skeptic. But not any more. People are complex, and an outwardly friendly and caring person with whom you share a life can indeed turn out to be a complete fraud. I’m a believer now because I observed it. I lived it.

]]> By: Stpk https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/comment-page-1/#comment-212 Thu, 08 Feb 2018 11:01:52 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=346#comment-212 Yes, that quote is so true…! thank you so much for sharing it. Yes it is so sad to loose innocence, but it sure will give us a special strenght I am sure.
Your followed words are also so true and powerful : “we just have to make people earn our trust…” this is it exactly: MAKE PPL EARN OUR TRUST, just like an animal getting back into savageness , who’s always going to be aware, all senses wide open and who won’t trust blindly. “Earn our trust”, sounds so, so simple but those words are so powerful.
Love from Europe

]]> By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/comment-page-1/#comment-211 Wed, 07 Feb 2018 12:48:36 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=346#comment-211 ]]> In reply to Stpk.

Thank you for reading. ❤

]]> By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/comment-page-1/#comment-210 Wed, 07 Feb 2018 12:48:10 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=346#comment-210 In reply to Stpk.

Hello. I think they take advantage of the fact that we believe they are like us and we have this innocence that we don’t want to let go of. They also mess with our intuition with all those mind games they play like gaslighting us. I like the quote at the end by Jackson Mackenzie about losing innocence. It still makes me cry every time I read it. We can trust again, we just have to make people earn our trust and not give it because we assume all people are good like we are and won’t hurt us. It’s like like Mackenzie says, it’s a sad realization, but we will be stronger.

]]> By: Stpk https://fairytaleshadows.com/i-used-to-be-one-of-the-non-believers-too/comment-page-1/#comment-209 Wed, 07 Feb 2018 12:30:49 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=346#comment-209 Even though I’m still struggling to leave that denial at 100% and go no contact with that man, I already see the world differently.
I thought yes, I was naïve, stupid to have let myself be fooled that way, because I’m a sort of strong woman, but with your article, I realise that WAS INNOCENCE. Omg… innocence for me is like having a pure heart, well, even though I made mistakes in my life before meeting the demon.
That is sad to tell myself I won’t be able to trust anyone anymore. Especially men.
A special thing is that before that relationship, I could listen to my intuition and clearly feel if a person or even a place was good or not for me. So: I do not understant why it is so different with narco. It’s like being mesmerised at the first contact with them. But why???? of course I felt something was not quite ok, very soon, but why is it I did not close the door as I used to do with other people or places????
Do they have a sort of black magic power in their DNA?????
Thank you, once again for your work here dear Kristen, thank you so much.

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