Comments on: How to Think Like a Narcissist and Why You Should https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/ Living Through and Recovering From a Relationship with a Narcissist Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:07:21 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.5 By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-27563 Fri, 29 Jan 2021 03:31:26 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-27563 In reply to Julie Guldagger.

Hi Julie: I don’t see any comments in this article hating on narcissists. In any case, I don’t believe survivors should have to remain silent just because their abusers have a personality disorder. Yet wishing someone peace while at the same time stating facts about the damage they caused you are not mutually exclusive. I think it’s possible tell your truth about the trauma you’ve been through because of narcissistic abuse *and* to hope that the abusers can find peace from their own personality disorders. Thank you for your comment. -Kristen

]]> By: Julie Guldagger https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-27561 Fri, 29 Jan 2021 02:55:44 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-27561 I get so upset whenever we write about these men/women. I do feel a load, a big load of hate towards my ex – the leech (as my therapist told me to call him), but it seems like we all just easily start hating on them as if they are pure evil, when the fact of the matter is that they have a personality dissorder… None treatable that is for sure… But still, they have a very little cue of what they do to people along their way, cause they are damaged from childhood… They say therapy isnt possible for these types?? That is sad. Im never going back to my ex, but i do f…ing hope he will find peace some day and fix his childhood trauma <3 Julie

]]> By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-664 Fri, 17 Aug 2018 20:46:42 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-664 In reply to C.

Hello C, I’m so glad you enjoyed the article, and that you were also able to find some peace and hope through gaining a better understanding of the narcissist’s point of view. I agree it is traumatizing and painful at first and hard to accept, but liberating. Thank you for reading and for taking the time to share your thoughts. -Kristen

]]> By: Kristen Milstead https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-663 Fri, 17 Aug 2018 01:35:12 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-663 In reply to Mary Beth Marlar.

Hi Mary Beth: I put a link to his author page on Amazon in the article. He’s written several dozen books. I’ll also edit the article right now with links to other sources where you can access his material. Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment. -Kristen

]]> By: Mary Beth Marlar https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-662 Fri, 17 Aug 2018 00:12:29 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-662 In reply to C.

Hi, I’d like to read this information from Tudor that you mention. Where can I find that particular information that youve read?

]]> By: Mary Beth Marlar https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-1279 Fri, 17 Aug 2018 00:12:29 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-1279 In reply to C.

Hi, I’d like to read this information from Tudor that you mention. Where can I find that particular information that youve read?

]]> By: C https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-661 Thu, 16 Aug 2018 20:27:02 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-661 So true, Kristin. Thank you for another great piece on narcissism! I delved into Tudor’s world with curiosity and fear, and though I felt somewhat retraumatized by some of his incredibly candid, descriptive pieces…they ultimately liberated me from the confusion and cognitive dissonance that kept me chained to hope, the past and the perpetrator.

It’s hard to accept complete insincerity and a lack of empathy from the person who meant so much to me at one point, but it’s also one needs to fully move on with no contact.

]]> By: C https://fairytaleshadows.com/how-to-think-like-a-narcissist-and-why-you-should/comment-page-1/#comment-1278 Thu, 16 Aug 2018 20:27:02 +0000 https://fairytaleshadows.com/?p=1237#comment-1278 So true, Kristin. Thank you for another great piece on narcissism! I delved into Tudor’s world with curiosity and fear, and though I felt somewhat retraumatized by some of his incredibly candid, descriptive pieces…they ultimately liberated me from the confusion and cognitive dissonance that kept me chained to hope, the past and the perpetrator.

It’s hard to accept complete insincerity and a lack of empathy from the person who meant so much to me at one point, but it’s also one needs to fully move on with no contact.

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