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		By: Paulina		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Nov 2024 05:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Excellently written!]]></description>
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		By: Christopher Gale		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 23:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I got smoked by the narcissist in my divorce! I “fell down” I.e. like the movie “Falling Down” with Michael Douglas I just became distraught and emotionally lost. I was in Therapy and seeing a Psychiatrist as well as went to marriage counseling with her. This was my 3rd marriage and divorce but the first two were with the same person who was my High School sweet heart. Both of those divorced were honest and fair with no stormiest, The Second Wife was anything but fair and honest! 

The 2nd wife who had significant narcissist tendencies was pure insanity full of false accusations and guided by her false narrative. I lost everything because I was an emotional basket case and had problems at work, lifelong depression and my medication stopped working plus my support network of my Grandfather, Father, Step Mother and Mothet had all just recently passed away. Beyond that my wife had been working on the divorce behind my back for months and had already started another relationship without me knowing. 

The bottom line was that she hired the best lawyer around and had already stashed money and planned for my demise with some pretty amazing lies and accusations. I got screwed in every aspect possible as well as online warfare including being sent nasty grams, sex tapes, bikini photos and taunting type crap. The whole thing just broke me down but here now a couple years later I’m still struggling going from well off with over $1mil. In assets to being broke and living in an rv. I atleast]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got smoked by the narcissist in my divorce! I “fell down” I.e. like the movie “Falling Down” with Michael Douglas I just became distraught and emotionally lost. I was in Therapy and seeing a Psychiatrist as well as went to marriage counseling with her. This was my 3rd marriage and divorce but the first two were with the same person who was my High School sweet heart. Both of those divorced were honest and fair with no stormiest, The Second Wife was anything but fair and honest! </p>
<p>The 2nd wife who had significant narcissist tendencies was pure insanity full of false accusations and guided by her false narrative. I lost everything because I was an emotional basket case and had problems at work, lifelong depression and my medication stopped working plus my support network of my Grandfather, Father, Step Mother and Mothet had all just recently passed away. Beyond that my wife had been working on the divorce behind my back for months and had already started another relationship without me knowing. </p>
<p>The bottom line was that she hired the best lawyer around and had already stashed money and planned for my demise with some pretty amazing lies and accusations. I got screwed in every aspect possible as well as online warfare including being sent nasty grams, sex tapes, bikini photos and taunting type crap. The whole thing just broke me down but here now a couple years later I’m still struggling going from well off with over $1mil. In assets to being broke and living in an rv. I atleast</p>
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		By: Patty Tricker		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2021 22:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You will never fully understand the meaning of this until you are divorcing (he filed!) a chief of police who uses his knowledge and relationship with the judge to drag things on! And lie!!!! OMG. Everything he did, he accused ME of in court. Played the victim to the hilt!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You will never fully understand the meaning of this until you are divorcing (he filed!) a chief of police who uses his knowledge and relationship with the judge to drag things on! And lie!!!! OMG. Everything he did, he accused ME of in court. Played the victim to the hilt!</p>
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		By: kmay		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2021 21:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The process got easier for me and the tactics he was using when I stop taking it personally.  They had nothing to do with me but were all about him.  He didn&#039;t treat me well when we were married so why would he be reasonable when I filed for divorce.  In court he present his case based on the fact that I didn&#039;t want him to move away to go to university (I was 17 and madly in love) so he didn&#039;t go.  He wanted me to give him spousal support because he never has reached his full earning potential.  He, of course, makes way more than me.  Its going on 4 years and he still hasn&#039;t settled with me as he wants to keep everything.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The process got easier for me and the tactics he was using when I stop taking it personally.  They had nothing to do with me but were all about him.  He didn&#8217;t treat me well when we were married so why would he be reasonable when I filed for divorce.  In court he present his case based on the fact that I didn&#8217;t want him to move away to go to university (I was 17 and madly in love) so he didn&#8217;t go.  He wanted me to give him spousal support because he never has reached his full earning potential.  He, of course, makes way more than me.  Its going on 4 years and he still hasn&#8217;t settled with me as he wants to keep everything.</p>
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