Verbal abuse comes in many different forms and one that is often the easiest to spot is an abuser’s insults or put-downs. My ex-boyfriend did not hold back, issuing demeaning comments or labels meant to attack specific things about me, my life, or the people in it so that I would feel bad about myself and change my behavior in some way. His words were direct hits either on things I liked about myself or on things I was insecure about. Either way, however, he used his knowledge about me gained through the closeness to me earned early in the relationship to try to hurt me.
Read more on my HealthyPlace bi-weekly blog here: https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/verbalabuseinrelationships/2018/11/the-3-methods-verbal-abusers-use-to-insult-you
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