Was Your Narcissist Partner Female? I’d Like to Hear From You

I am interested in learning more about how the specific behavior of male and female narcissists may be different within the context of romantic relationships.

I would like to know more about how the idealization and devaluation phases may differ. For example, I’m curious to know what the red flags are by gender, and if different manipulation tactics are used throughout the abuse cycle or if some are used more often than others depending on whether the narcissist is a man or a woman– and if so, what are they?

If you were in a romantic relationship with a woman whose behavior fits the toxic pattern identified for narcissistic abuse or you have developed Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome from this relationship, I would be interested in learning from you.

If you fit the criteria above and you’re interested in telling me more about your experiences, please fill out the form below. In the comment section, mention that you’d like to fill out the questionnaire about female narcissists.

I’ll E-mail you a list of open-ended questions. You don’t have to answer anything you don’t want to answer and you aren’t asked to provide any identifying information about yourself.

This is strictly for my knowledge and may help me write articles and other materials that are more helpful by being less generic down the road at some point as I learn more.

As always, thank you for being here, for reading, and for being a witness to my story and letting me be a witness to yours.


Thank you for your assistance!  You’ll hear from me very soon.


Kristen Milstead

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